CompassOPD: Cross-Family On-Policy Distillation via Within-Family Likelihood Shifts

On-policy distillation (OPD) provides dense token-level supervision on student-generated trajectories. Although OPD performs strongly when teacher and student belong to the same model family, we find that its effectiveness degrades in cross-family settings even after tokenizer alignment, with substantially stronger external teachers offering little additional improvement. To understand this disconnect, we decompose the cross-family OPD signal into two components: an offset between a low-capability teacher-family reference and the student, and the within-family log-likelihood shift from that reference to the strong teacher. Standard OPD transfers both components together, allowing the offset to dominate the update direction and obscure the changes associated with teacher capability improvements. We propose CompassOPD, which removes this offset and transfers the within-family shift, while a frozen student reference anchors updates to the student's initial policy. Thus, both teacher-side and student-side changes are measured within their respective model families. Experiments across three student families and multiple teacher families show that CompassOPD consistently outperforms standard cross-family OPD, improving average reasoning accuracy by up to 5.50 points. For an MoE teacher, we further construct the reference directly from the teacher checkpoint by reducing expert activation, eliminating the need for a separate reference checkpoint while retaining a 3.43-point gain over OPD.